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      <image:title>links - Find Your Harbor, the website for the organization Salt Water, which was founded as a “safe harbor where you can find comfort, support and tools to survive your loss and rebuild your life,” features the introduction from the book.</image:title>
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      <image:title>links - Liz Kalloch, the book designer of “Grief Become You,” writes about her experience with the process of assembling this collection together.</image:title>
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      <image:title>links - Contributor Sarah Kilch Gaffney’s essay, “A Geography of Grief,” was reprinted on www.gratefulness.org, the website for A Network of Grateful Living, “ a global organization offering online and community-based educational programs and practices which inspire and guide a commitment to grateful living, and catalyze the transformative power of personal and societal responsibility.”</image:title>
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      <image:title>additional content - Ingeborg Weinmann White - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Erica Faye Thompson August 1, 1984-January 5, 2019</image:caption>
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      <image:title>additional content - Denise Stensland - I don’t remember taking this picture...my dad and I have some deep issues. I did not realize I captured this. I felt that he didn’t want to be there. He left all the decisions up to me to face. I handled it, calling 911 the morning she went blind and was out of her mind in pain with the infection and fever. I ran to the hospital  meeting her in the ER, holding her down while she physically fought with the nurses and doctors trying to pull out the IV and oxygen mask off for 5 hours.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Two years ago, on February 19, 2018, my mother died in a hospice house. Our relationship wasn't always an easy one; she was unhappy and let's just say she could be a difficult. She had her moments though of funny and generous, so I choose to remember those moments. And she loved Burger King, so today as a tribute, I as well as my two daughters (her adult granddaughters), will eat a Junior Whopper with cheese (no pickles, no onions, no mustard), French fries, and a chocolate shake. I so hoped she would leave this world in a different frame of mind. I know no one ever wants to die, but she died a very unhappy woman with regrets, and that breaks my heart though there are lessons to be learned from that. This photo was taken the day before she died.</image:caption>
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